Monday, December 10, 2012




The success of a lingerie boutique hinges on one of the most ancient and simplest art forms: Customer Service. It isn't a difficult thing to do. It requires a smile, a little bit of effort and lingerie knowledge. A store may have some amazing stock, but with no one to assist and encourage a purchase, who is going to buy the garments? Lingerie (especially fun stuff) usually doesn't sell itself. It takes prompting. Most women don't buy these frivolous garments just because. They are purchasing for a reason...

I went into a store in Sydney (it shall remain nameless) that I have been to previously. The service I endured during my last visit was far from satisfactory, but I really liked some of the labels they stocked, so I wanted to give them another chance and not judge an entire store on the efforts of one staff member. Who knows, she could've been having a really bad day. Maybe her cat had just passed away, or perhaps she found out her boyfriend cheated on her. Who knows the reason behind poor customer service from someone whose profession is to perform in this field.

I walked into the store excited to see what they had for me this time. I hear the assistant say to her friend on the phone "I've got to go. A customer just walked in." I thought 'great' - that was polite of her. This time I would get some service! I looked up from my phone having removed my headphones to offer her a smile, and an easy opportunity to say hello and ask what had brought me to her store today. Alas she was looking at her computer screen already. Following my entrance to the store and her getting off the phone, her focus had already shifted from her friend straight to something else without even a greeting. Ok, maybe she was doing paperwork or something. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and started browsing.

I was touching stock, looking for size tags and prices. Still not a peep. I went to the next rack, right against the counter. She didn't even look up when I looked her way. It was disappointing to say the least. I was the customer, yet I felt like I had to do all the work. I understand that some clients may be reluctant to talk in a cheeky lingerie store and prefer browsing in silence - I get that. There are few things more disconcerting than being followed around a store by an assistant watching your every move as if expecting a thief. That scenario will encourage me to leave a store regardless of the quality of the product. A simple greeting and an enquiry as to why I'm in their establishment is all I ask for. If I want to browse I will say, but I would like to be asked. It shouldn't be my job to approach her.

After about five minutes of wandering around this very small store, I got frustrated and thought this is getting ridiculous. I had to break the ice. "Whats up the stairs?" She finally looked up and smiled. Unfortunately, by that time I was over it and it was more of a test to see what she would verbally offer me. She had the chance to redeem herself with a touch of service. Alas, all I got was "Upstairs is toys and books...". "Um is there any more lingerie up there?". "No"...



What?? Ok, back to the racks I went. Straight to the original Maison Close three-piece I was eyeing off, with chain detail. I took piece by piece off the rack, examining them all. Held it up to my body in the mirror, and... nothing. Ok this store was done. Not a chance I was going to buy there. For the fun of it anyway, I asked if there were any more sizes available, mentioning that all I could see was size medium and large on the rack. She said she'd check out the back and disappeared, without even bothering to go to the rack first. She came back and exclaimed that they were sold out, but could find out if she could get it and call me later? I said I'm from Melbourne so it's now or never, telling her I really liked Maison Close and I couldn't get it back home so I loved seeing it her store... Still no offer of "Maybe you should try on the Medium and see" or "how about this one also by Maison Close. It uses a really beautiful Chantilly lace and has suspenders." I thought she was still paying attention to me and had gone back to the computer to look up if she could find the stock for me. But no. She was back online reading something absorbing. That's when I walked out. "Thank you!" not...

I'd had enough. I am without a doubt one of the easiest people in the world to sell lingerie to. A little encouragement and I'm sold! If I find what I want, I DO purchase odd sizes and alter things if I really love them, but I wasn't going to purchase from a store that wouldn't even have a basic conversation with a client when not busy. And it's not like this was the first time they had done this to me. I gave them two chances and they failed I'm sorry to say. This store has some lovely stock but very poor customer service. I will find these pieces online - and when I say online, I don't mean from their online store.

I didn't want to have to sell myself to them as a legitimate client, but that is how it felt. I probably would have got the service I required if I proved to her that I REALLY wanted to buy, but I wasn't dressed up, I looked young, I had just walked all the way there to visit their store, and in the end they lost me as a client, forever.



So retailers be warned: I am on the look out. I don't like to verbally put down lingerie stores on the blog and name the damned, because they are a dying breed. But you need to pull up your socks and make an effort with your customers. If you work it well, every one who enters could potentially create a sale. Even if they just refer the store to someone else. Boutique stores need word of mouth to keep them alive. If you can keep the clients talking positively, you will be making money in no time. 


Have you had a bad lingerie customer service experience? Or a good one for that matter!
 

Saturday, November 17, 2012



Shhh! Shut your mouth! Quiet! Shut up! Zip it! I know I don't need anymore black in my lingerie collection but I can't seem to be able to say no to an unusual style bra, even if it is in plain black. I'm always on the lookout for something just a little different. A lingerie set with that "je ne sais quoi"  If I look in bra drawer number one at home, I'd say three quarters of the bras in there are black. Perhaps it is a Melbourne thing? But really I think it truly depends on the colours you wear over the top of it everyday. I do wear a lot of black...

I just purchased my first Maison Close bra from Passion Fruit (more on this store later) I raided their racks and found a gorgeous black satin bra with zips going up the middle of the cup. You could wear it done up or open and turn it into a peek a boo bra. It was so unusual and cheeky I had to buy it! It wasn't my normal thing to do, when it wasn't on sale, but the price point for this Romanian label are actually perfectly affordable. $49 for the bra, but there weren't any matching bottoms left. Lucky for me I have a multitude of black bottoms that would match perfectly with this unique bra.


 
My Maison Close bra could be worn normally or remove the shoulder straps and convert it into a strapless. I loved the idea of a sexy adaptable bra. Practical yet completely raunchy! Check out the video link here to see the garments on www.youtube.com/MaisonClose

I wasn't sure how comfortable lingerie with a zip would be and I certainly didn't want to try zipping it up once I had it on....ouch! But the bra was actually not too bad! The zip sat nice and flat underneath the cup and was quite comfortable to wear.  It made me rack my brain to think of other lingerie brands that have used zips as a main feature piece. When done well, I think it makes a piece look quite modern and funky. Be it a zip strap or an item that actually unzips. Here are some of the labels I know to have done this really well.

Bordelle

Aubade
Lascivious

Aubade
La Perla
Find me here on Twitter for up to the minute purchases and sales as I find them. I Tweeted about this purchase as soon as I bought it. I can't hold my excitement when I find new lingerie.

Have you heard of Maison Close? Would you wear lingerie that unzipped?


Wednesday, November 7, 2012


Hi, my name is My Lingerie Addiction and welcome to my world. I have been receiving quite a few emails lately asking lingerie related questions as well as wondering who I am and what authority I have talking about this subject. I am so grateful that a little fun venture has turned into something that I can use to not only vent, but to also get my point across to people out there whom I will never meet. I never really introduced myself at the start, as the blog was just for my personal enjoyment and for my friends to read. It was a venting tool so I didn't have to talk lingerie over group dinners or birthday parties. I think my friends were well and truly over that conversation. So I started the blog in order to not only get it all out of my system but to document how much I actually own (I still don't know the exact number).

The conversations I have about lingerie can go to extremes and to be honest I don't have many people I can talk in depth about it with. Now thanks to the blog, there is you. There is a lot to learn about the world of lingerie. From media presented lingerie photography to feminine insecurities. From lingerie being thought of as purely a sex aid to how best store your bras. The argument of what men want compared to what women want. There are a million topics out there I want to touch on and learn more about myself. And six months ago I jotted down on paper some subjects I'd like to broach. I wanted to see if I would have enough to write about, and after twenty minutes I had over a hundred topics. This was a viable idea.


In one way, My Lingerie Addiction is for me to spout my opinion on labels, styles and service. In another it is a tool for those interested in reading how to see lingerie the way I do. Not just as a necessity, not just as a sexual accessory. Lingerie is all about you and if we as women don't talk about it how will we know what is available and how it should feel on? Media exposes us to fashion but lingerie is still taboo and hardly written about. Shapewear dominates Australian magazines over all other lingerie styles and I truly hate that. This will soon be all we know about lingerie.

Do you want to know if you are wearing the correct bra size? Or would you like to know more about the different shapes that are available and what body type they are best suited to? Is it ok to wear a push up bra on a daily basis? Where do you find a strapless bra for a G cup size? This is what I am here for. I may sound preachy and opinionated at times but I feel I can be. This is my anonymous world. Your opinion can differ from mine about style and that's completely fine. I just want to show you all the options you may not normally be exposed to via normal media. And let me tell you, I have been in this industry a long time and you wont meet anyone else in Australia as passionate about lingerie as I am. Certain things I write about are actual facts and some are merely my opinions. I am excited that you are reading and asking questions. I hope you pass it around so the conversation can continue (also feel free to skim and just look at pretty pictures).


So let me tell you a few base facts and reasons behind My Lingerie Addiction... the blog.

#1 Yes, I am a female! (Someone did actually question this)
#2 I am in my early 30s
#3 I have worked in the Australian lingerie industry for ten years in many different fields. As a professional fitter, designer, trainer, stylist, personal shopper and blogger. It is my passion, my career and my fun.
#4 My aim is to have Australian women open up to the world of good lingerie and not think of it as only a necessity, a body changing garment or a sexual item worn to please others. We aren't being exposed to decent lingerie here the way that Europe or the US are.
#5 I keep myself hidden for a reason, as obviously I am talking about a very personal and often thought of as sexual subject. So please no dodgy comments...(guys I'm talking to you)


 
Special thanks to Natalie Rowe photography

Lingerie: Prelude purchased at Honey Birdette
Model: Meg Goodes
Hair: Madeline Leon
Makeup: Candy

Feel free to ask questions and leave feedback on the blog itself and not just via email or FB. You can comment on here anonymously too! What have you learnt so far from reading the blog?


Tuesday, October 30, 2012



I know we Aussies don't really celebrate Halloween here (yet) but I happen to love the idea of it. Not because of the over commercialisation of this non holiday, but the fact that people can dress up in such a flamboyant way and it be completely acceptable. You can become a superhero and suddenly feel powerful. You can become a scandalous celebrity and bring out your inner diva. You can become a zombie and appear ugly and be completely comfortable within that! You can be whatever it is you want and by doing so it often changes the behaviour of the person in costume. You start to role play. You have fun exploring the character you portray.

This Halloween I will be in lingerie costume, just for the fun of it. I know I don't often talk about "dressing up" because I want to first introduce lingerie as being all about you, not anyone else. But there is that other fun side of frivolous, non practical lingerie sets that I absolutely adore. Not just to see the reaction it can receive but also the different personality you sometimes put on when wearing them. It doesn't have to be the tacky "Naughty nurse" costume but something out of the normal realm of lingerie. Something that you cannot wear under clothing. Something that is strictly for fun and not necessarily a costume. Here is an array of styles I will be considering wearing this Halloween night.


Aubade Boite Desir

 
Victoria's Secret

Marlies Dekkers
Nichole de Carle
Baci Lingerie

Victoria's Secret

What Katie Did
Bordelle

Marlies Dekkers


Aimer Feel

Now if only I could find my fluffy ears to go with my Japanese cat costume.... What are you going to wear for Halloween?

Monday, October 22, 2012



Well the rumours were true... Bellechasse is closing down.  I have such mixed emotions when I hear that a lingerie store is about to fold. In a way I'm really sad that: not only is there one less store I can shop at, but I feel the lingerie industry is dying here in Melbourne from lack of interest. On the other hand: I know they will have an amazing sale and perhaps a few newbies will purchase their first non basic lingerie set, because it's cheap. Bellechasse aren't announcing the closure on their email outs or Twitter feed but it is happening very soon. The For Lease sign is up for all to see...

I received notification on Friday announcing their Oh La La Sale. It offered 30% off everything online and instore. Or 50% off if you came instore with a friend. This discount included items that were already reduced. I couldn't wait! I headed down there on Saturday and went slightly mental... The front section of the store displays all the full price stock and the second room all the discounted stock. Signage is minimal displaying the extra 30% and 50% discounts and most of the customers in there had no idea there was a sale. I however was grabbing stock like a mad woman trying to save her belongings from a burning house. One hand loaded with lingerie while the other hand was using my mobile, talking to clients, letting them know what was available. I was frantic!



I started grabbing bargain after bargain. Did I need a crystal riding crop? Well no I don't need one but it was by Maison Close and it was all of $24! That will look great on display in my house. Did I need more stockings? Um, no I didn't. But they do wear out and these were only $5! I started making a pile on the counter as there was no way I could carry any more. I had people on the phone ordering other items as I walked around the store. One ID Sarrieri lace and Swarovski crystal bodysuit rrp $600 down to $175. SOLD! Two full length silk chiffon robes with feather trim. Done. One peach chiffon and black chantilly lace trim sleepwear set. Robe, chemise and g-string. On the counter. Three pairs of black fluffy high heel slippers! Ahh it went on and on.






The pile grew bigger and bigger and I searched harder and harder to find some hidden treasures. I couldn't get everything I wanted but thought I'd better grab the ones I thought would sell out first. The designer labels, the fun accessories, the best bargains. I would come back for the 'full priced' lingerie and photography books on my next visit.

The wonderful sales assistant helped me find sizes and prepare boxes for my goodies. "I hope you have a car to take all this home!" she said. Alas I didn't and I would be walking to the train station to ferry my bags home. All 6 of them... 



What I purchased for moi was my very first Marlies Dekkers set. It was reduced from $475 down to a mere $65! I had to fish around in a box out the back to find items in my size but it was well worth the effort. The 'Consuelo' set came in a push up style with a matching short and g/string in a charcoal grey colour. It was in a lovely satin fabric with a crystal detail on all the pieces. The Marlies Dekkers brand specialise in strap work on their basic smooth line cut. It's a pretty amazing label. I'm very excited to give this a go.


I also purchased some boudoir pieces that will probably only be used in photo shoots. The Fifi Feather Robe for $65 and the Maison Close crystal riding crop for $24. I found some matching pieces to sets I already had in the bargain bowls. All $5 a piece. Like the Made by Niki Slinkies bikini in Aqua to a set I just purchased online. My haul was pretty amazing. I still want more, but then again, I always do.... This is what I purchased on Saturday.








I was also lucky enough to be given the above black and gold set and the feather bra as a gift from my friends this weekend (I purchased the bottom and suspender myself to match). What a lucky girl I am! My friends know me far too well...

The sale continues instore and online and is DEFINITELY worth the visit. The sale includes books, toys, hosiery and lingerie. The address for those too lazy to click on the link is
1053 High Street Armadale Vic
 and the website is
www.bellechasse.com.au



All I can say is get in quick. Though I'm hoping there will be even further reductions closer to a confirmed closing date.
Want anything from Bellechasse? I'm heading there right now....



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