Thursday, August 30, 2012

 
Lets begin this series of posts with one of the most important pieces in your lingerie wardrobe: The strapless bra. There are certain things you have to look for in a good strapless. You MUST try on strapless bras and find one that works best for your shape and the outfit you are wearing it with. Considering the height of the cup, the fabric used and the width of the back. This is just a guide, as it truly depends on the shape of your own bust to determine the correct cut to go for.

Things to consider when purchasing a strapless bra


#1 What size are you?

It's important to consider shapes when it comes to being a different cup size. If you are around an A to a small D then you can opt for something with a normal bra width back. But if you are a fuller cup or need more support you must look out for a nice wide back. Something with 3 hooks rather than 2 will be better going into a full D cup and above. The effect becomes almost like wearing a bustier. Giving a longer line through the side and offering a more sturdy base for support.

If you are fuller and or softer in the bust, then you want a style that comes up and over in the cup not sitting too low as you will find you jiggle and move too much without the straps, then you have risk of popping out. Make sure you do a jumping test to make sure it stays put.

If you are more petite and want a boost, then you can opt for a padded style. But make sure it closes in fully on the top section of your bust, as with extra inserts you often find it pushing the bra cup forward creating an unsightly line once you pop a dress on over it. Even a moulded cup strapless will give you a nice full profile without needing the extra padding.

#2 What colour/fabric outfit are you wearing it with?


The staple piece everyone should have is a skin coloured strapless bra. Something as close to your skin tone as possible. It can be worn under most of your garments however do not wear this under a dark colour fabric as #1 the colour may rub off onto the bra and can be hard to clean #2 it often shows up under flash photography. And there is nothing worse than looking through all your photos the next day and realising you cannot post any of them onto Facebook as you can see the whole outline of your basic beige bra. So if you are wearing a dark stretch fabric, like say a jersey, then you must wear a dark strapless bra. Rigid fabrics like a silk are more forgiving, it tends to be the stretch ones that will become a little sheer once pulled tight on the bust.

#3 What shape is the outfit?

You have to consider the shape of the outfit you are wearing with your strapless. If it dips low in the front, on the sides, is v shaped in the back... These are all things you can adjust slightly with the right strapless. You must have one with silicone strips sewn into the band so it doesn't slip around the body and you can position your back straps a little lower than you normally would. If you have a dress that sits extremely low in the back or exposes quite a lot on the sides then a silicone or stick on bra might be a better option. I don't love these items but sometimes they are the only things that will work. I don't think they give a lot of support but it will at least give you the coverage if a normal strapless will show through under your dress. I will talk more about these in another post (backless).


Issues that arise from strapless bras

  

#1 Not enough cleavage

Unfortunately a bra without straps isn't going to give as much lift as a bra with straps. So don't go in thinking it will give the exact cleavage look as your best push up bra. The shape is usually more like a balconette which is gives an upward lift but not pushing you in towards the center as much. It can still create a nice full look, so make sure you try your dress over it to see. You can find strapless bras that dip lower in the middle but just make sure the sides and section over the nipple does sit high enough to still cup your bust enough to center it.

#2 Back Fat

People usually wear their strapless bras tighter than a normal bra just to feel more supported. Unfortunately if you wear it too tight you may see some back fat. Even on the smallest of frames, it happens. So if you are wearing a very fine fabric over the top make sure your strapless isn't done up too tight creating back or side ridges. If it has silicone on the band, it will stay put. The only rule is don't wear mouisturiser and opt for a better quality bra with better quality silicone to help it not slip.

#3 Bra showing through in sections

Make sure you take your outfit down with you when trying on strapless bras. One trick if your bra peeks through where it shouldn't is double sided tape. Pop it onto the top section of your bra and press your outfit down onto it to keep it from not showing through. Under certain outfits you may need a lower side, more plunge cut, minimal back option. So think carefully about what exactly you need and the line you need to follow. 


Quick guide and recap...


Basic Strapless

A basic strapless is a moulded bra designed to just cup the bust naturally giving a slight upward lift. Creating a nice rounded silhouette under an outfit. This is the most practical and common style strapless bra around. It is usually wider in the middle and sits like a balconette shape, almost straight across the bust.


Push up Strapless

The push up strapless works best for a more petite bust. Make sure that the garment closes in completely in the top section or you will get an unsightly line once you wear your dress over it. This style will boost you up a little but remember, without the straps, you wont get the exact same push up effect as your normal boosting bra. Look for extra inserts in the bottom/side section of the bra for a push "in" effect.

Full Strapless

The fuller style strapless is the most comfortable style to wear and is best for a fuller bust. Something that cups the bust completely and has a nice wide back for support and minimal movement. Just be careful how low your dress sits as to not have your bra show through.

Low plunge strapless/torsolette

The low LOW plunge strapless may work with certain low cut outfits, however the main concern is the not so smooth lines this style tends to create under a finer fabric. The shape to the cup often creates a line through the middle of the bust as well as the wide under bust shape sometimes making unsightly bulges if it cuts into the meatier portion of the body. Better with heavier fabrics and low front and back garments.

Strapless Corset

Often women come to me in search of a strapless corset thinking they can kill two birds with one stone. Supportive and control... Unfortunately this isn't normally the case. Yes a longer line can sometimes create a more supported feel but often the structure make this harder to wear under your garments. Boning in a corset can show through under your finer fabrics again creating a more obvious line. Better reserved for heavy fabric or loser fitting garments. There are smoothline options, like the corset above, however it isn't designed to give the tuck that women think it will. The corset can sometimes create unsightly bulges on the hip where the corset ends when worn tightly. Best reserved for garments that flare from where the corset ends not outfts fitted all the way through.

Strapless Bodysuit

If you are wanting to go for a smoother line throughout, maybe try a strapless bodysuit. These garments dont usually have boning unless in the side section but can still smooth things out. Just be careful of the panty line in the back and that the length is correct for you as sometimes on a longer torso they may pull down and on a shorter torso bunch up... You must look for a firmer fabric and something that does fit nice and tight on the underbust or you will be forever pulling it up, as these garments often don't have bra hooks to tighten in the back if it stretches. Look out for a wide elastic through the back section for support like a normal bra. These garments don't give the best boosting effect and just cup the bust but are good for a smoother overall line through the torso.

What is your Strapless shape?

I know this post is a lot to take in and to be honest that was a very condensed version of how much there is to know about strapless bras! So consider it a guide and you can always contact me on the blog or via email if you need further advice on the subject.

What is your favourite strapless bra? Or do you have a strapless bra horror story to share?

Tuesday, August 21, 2012



Yes you heard me correctly...Disney! I have two reasons for this post.
Number ONE,

I attended a costume party last weekend which gave the rather hard theme of WHATEVER fancy dress you wanted! So seriously, what do you wear to one of those? Should I go as Catwoman? A sexy Pirate? A burlesque dancer? There were too many options! After going through idea after idea, I settled on the one thing that suited me most right then, Snow White. I had recently cut my dark hair shorter and had the pale white skin after being ill for a few weeks, so all I needed was to pop on some bright red lipstick, find a cheap ebay costume and I was done!




I went online and purchased a Sexy snow white costume for $40 including postage and awaited it's arrival... I tried it on and was shocked that the sizing ran ridiculously small for this set and I had no time left to exchange it! Measurements on the site told me I may not even fit into the Small size, but my god, I definitely needed a medium. Crap... What do you do with a corset that doesn't even do up?? I had to make do. So off I went to Lincraft and purchased 3 bra extenders and luckily for me, it worked! I had an outfit! The costume fortunately had a cape that could cover the dodgy fix up job in the back.




Disney story number TWO,

I went back to the Bendon outlet when I received word that they were having yet another sale. All bras $20 all bottoms $10. A lot of stock goes off the shelves for these two week but sometimes you find absolute gold. This time for me was a mixed reaction. Yes they had included Pleasure State Couture in the sale, however I either had them already or they were kind of f*ugly... However this has never stopped me before! I dove into the racks and picked out two outfits that I certainly didn't love but knew I would wear... at some point... even if only once!



One of these outfits I call my Minnie Mouse set. It has a red fabric base with rather large white polka dots scattered on the fabric. The bra is cut like a quarter cup, where it sits under the nipple line, but then the underlay had a lovely soft black leavers lace to cover up whats exposed. It features ribbon tie sides on the bra and the knickers. As I tried to tell my friend, when she exclaimed "Eww....!" to the set, that I had nothing like it. She asked if that was necessarily a reason to buy it... And yes of course it is! You never know when you want a Disneyesque lingerie set to wear! I mean seriously!

I wore it the next day and was pleasantly surprised that the set looked a lot better on than off . It was extremely comfortable though ran a little big in it's back sizing and was already doing it up on the tightest hook. The look was cute yet sexy without it being super girlie. I changed my opinion and decided I actually like this set now as opposed to my "I will wear it one day" mind set. What do you think? They still have quite a few pieces left in this collection if anyone is interested, head to your nearest Bendon Outlet.





 $40 for 3 pieces valued at around $335 for the set. How could I say no?? Have you ever purchased lingerie you never really liked just because it was on sale?


Thursday, August 16, 2012



Since my lingerie collection is so vast I'm sometimes asked to loan things out for photo shoots. Stores are often hard to pin down or don't offer the style a photographer or stylist is looking for. So that's when they come to me... I have in the past loaned out pieces I have made but it's been nice this time around to raid my personal collection. These are photos that I would love to have anyway, as often these pieces are not photographed any other way than on a "mannequin" model for a catalogue.

35mm Photography approached me to help out on the lingerie side of an upcoming shoot. They needed ivory, plum and black garments that would be used layered under knitwear. We went through items that I had set out on a rack and they went away with a couple bags worth of goodies. I got the photos back last week and was absolutely wrapped with the results!

This talented team used more lingerie than I expected and less layering. Perhaps because the model was gorgeous and the lingerie too beautiful to hide away... So let me present to you their photo shoot for Fashionising.


Nina OH!

La Perla Black Label "Dea" Feather bra

With La Perla 'A Song' High waist Brief

Bacirubati Purple Chantilly lace
Pleasure State 'Queen of Hearts" Waist Cincher
Fredricks of Hollywood bra with my hand made french knicker
Elle Macpherson Boudoir
Elle Macpherson Peek a boo bra

With Yves Saint Laurent Suspender

Hand made Tri bra and french knicker

Photography: 35mm Fashion Photography
Mode: Nina @London MGT
Stylist: Lyndel Yeo
Makeup & Hair: Phoebe Goulding
Lingerie: My Lingerie Addiction

To see all of the photos go to
www.fashionising.com

What do you think of the latest shoot for My Lingerie Addiction?


Wednesday, August 8, 2012


What a lovely surprise it was today when I opened up my letter box and found the new im catalogue inside, ready to tempt me. It's like Christmas day getting this in the mail! Being a member of their mailing list means I get sent out their catalogue twice a year when all the new stock is about to arrive. This year it's called Intrique....

Let me give you a sneak peek at what I found inside. Brands from La Perla, Aubade, Lise Charmel, Christies and much much more. As I've mentioned before, this is a designer lingerie store. No cheap tacky items here. High quality, high priced and amazingly beautiful.

Most of these items are up on their website and can be ordered via there or in store in Melbourne, Sydney, Gold Coast and Wellington. For more details go to

www.imboutique.com.au

La Perla LP Colour

La Perla Belle De Jour

La Perla La Dolce Syl

La Perla Lolita's Swing

Argentovivo Bouquet

Argentovivo Bouquet
Argentovivo Pizzo Plisse
Christies Kate

Christies Beauty
Naory Fascino
Naory Festival
Aubade Instants Coquins
Aubade Memoire Des Sens
Lise Charmel Sublime Elegance
Lise Charmel Dolce Desir
Eprise Love Effusion

Eprise Personal Beauty
Styles available in a variety of sizes ranging from A to G cup, 8-22 depending on the brand. I am going to pop in as soon as I get a chance and see what they have to show me. It hasn't been that long since my last purchase there but the catalogue is just way too tempting...

Does this Intrigue you?? Do you like getting catalogues in the mail?



Monday, August 6, 2012

  
LOVE is not strong enough a word to express how I feel about this upcoming range for La Perla. It has restored my faith in this amazing label. For a number of years I ummed and ahhed over most of the collections, not truly needing to buy any of it until this past year or so. The photography from the European Autumn Winter range had me gasping for breath. Yes this is what good lingerie does to me...

These items are unfortunately not going to be available in Australia until the end of the year, as we are a little behind in seasons here. But I eagerly await it's arrival and tempt you with their interpretation of this Oriental theme.

Welcome to La Perla Oriental Suite.

 
 













Check out their video here to see more of this stunning range.
www.orientalsuite.laperla.com

I have popped my name down on a wait list for some of these items once they arrive in Australia. Which pieces would you get if money was not an issue?

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