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Monday, January 14, 2013


Marvel by La Perla

Personal image and beauty projection is defined from such a young age that it is hard to control the emotion behind our perception. From the way your mother may not leave the house without makeup or the way that your father talks about the beauty of other women. The magazines your fellow students gush over or the female celebrities your brother fantasises about. It takes years to form that opinion...and even longer to break them.

I remember being a child and seeing the way my father's gaze would follow my mother around the room. Yes he could be extremely annoyed with her a second before, when she yelled at him for being slack, but his admiration never ceased. That look of fascination and happiness with someone who was and had been his wife for years never faded. I listened as he would compliment her when she came out of the bathroom all dressed up to head out while he looked after us kids, or when she was in her pyjamas and he gave her a playful slap on the bum, giggling together as she told him off. This is the partnership I grew up watching. This is the love and attraction that I saw.

My father was far from perfect. You could call him lazy, but his undying love for my mother and his family was, and still is beyond joyous to watch. Yes my mum may have hated his ignorance and lack of sociability but she also knew him to be the best father a mother could dream of and the most faithful husband she could have hoped for. It resulted in a loving, safe upbringing.




Now my father was also just an average male, who could talk about the beauty of other women too. I never saw that as bad thing, as he would admire my mother most of all, but I do remember the comments he would make on women he saw on television. He hated big toothy smiles (Julia Roberts...he couldn't stand her) but loved the girl next door characters (Debbie Reynolds). He disliked tall leggy women (any model whatsoever) and loved women with more curves. Maybe it was a generation thing, maybe it was just his personal taste, but either way it gave me a different opinion from those of the friends around me.

When I would ohh and ahh over an overly thin, overly made up female celebrity, he would tell me that she wasn't nearly as beautiful as I was - his awkward looking teenage daughter. He had a way of slightly boosting my self confidence without giving me a big head in the slightest; I thought he was crazy for saying so but I could see it was in complete honesty. Just the knowledge that someone felt that way about me, even if the world didn't see the beauty within; It didn't matter what anyone else thought about me as long as I was happy, content and comfortable within myself and my own life. I felt lucky. "I don't understand what the world sees in that Claudia Schiffer model. Your mother is much more beautiful!"  my father would say. I could see that everyone had a different version of beauty... and that was ok.



I never felt the need to be like anyone else, follow trends or be anyone other than myself. My friends all dressed like Janet Jackson while I op-shopped and wore full circle skirts like Audrey Hepburn. My true friends liked the fact that I was different. Why did I want to look like everyone else my age? Why did I want to fit in? I wanted to be special. I wanted to be beautiful. Most of all, I wanted to be my true self and be loved for it.

So now I am a lingerie addict, an op-shopper, a bargain hunter, a hoarder, and I'm confident in the person I have become. I still have my insecure days, just like most people, but I wont allow myself to dwell on it for too long, because honestly...I don't actually care. I don't judge others harshly, so why should I judge myself that way? I will look at myself the way my father does. I will see myself through the eyes of someone who loves me and understand what it is they see with a little more clarity.

Stella Mcartney

What did you learn from your father about beauty? Has your image of beauty changed over the years? I have a lot more I want to write about in regards to this subject and how hard it can be to change a beauty 'opinion'. I'd love to hear what you learnt from your upbringing.

Thursday, January 10, 2013


A couple of years ago I scored two big bottles of MOR Blood Orange, liquid soap and moisturiser. I absolutely adored the scent and I held on to them for years, too scared to use it all up. I thought I should save it until I had a special occasion at mine. You know, when I would host an awesome party and the guests would remember the liquid soap near my basin. Dumb I know, and each time I hosted a party I thought "My house isn't the house I want to show off all my beautiful things in" so I would put the MOR back into the cupboard and refilled the plastic Dettol pump. My drunk guests wouldn't care less anyway!

When was the right time going to be, I started to wonder...
Last month I decided to give up on the hoarding and start with the enjoying. Life was just too short to hold on to the good stuff for a better time. The best time is now. So I pulled out my Blood Orange scented goodies one morning ready to wash and moisturise, only to discover the scent wasn't what I had remembered it to be. In actual fact, it had gone off. I had been holding onto something so long that it was now worthless.



We tend to do the same with lingerie - holding on to those beautiful matching sets, saving the more expensive pieces for a special occasion only. Perhaps we will wear it for an anniversary or a dirty weekend away. Maybe as a birthday surprise or a first encounter - it's not something we think to wear on a daily basis. We save those amazing pieces for when someone else will appreciate them too, and that's not what good lingerie should be about.


The bra featured in this post is probably my most valuable one to date, edging just shy of six-hundred Australian dollars. The workmanship on this single piece is beyond anything I have owned before, with silk on tulle, pinned by hand and sewn delicately in position to create the intricate loop work pattern called soutache. This was a bra that had to be altered to fit, as it only came in 1,2,3 sizings with no difference in the cups, but that didn't matter to me. This piece was like artwork and I appreciate the value of this hand-crafted La Perla piece enough to alter it to fit my younger frame. I held on to it for years, hardly wearing it as I felt it was just too special. It was weird - if it wasn't something I would wear for a partner and not something I would wear for every day, when exactly would I wear it? Well, never! And there lies the issue...

 Would it still fit me? This bra I had hardly worn... After I got it back from a photo shoot the other month (special thanks to Photographer Josie Withers and Stylist Labrini Kianidis for the first shot) I popped it on and luckily I could still do it up! Phew! I wore it that very day and felt brilliant in it! I find outfits now that work with the bra and it has become an everyday wear piece. Why throw away hard-earned money not wearing something you adore when in a years time it may not even fit?



Do you hold on to your matching sets only for when someone else will be seeing them or do you wear them on a daily basis?

Wednesday, January 2, 2013


As I write to you I hang my head in absolute shame. It shakes ever so slightly from side to side as I look at this blank page and wonder what I can say next to make this all better. I messed up. I admit that. I am sorry... I am sorry I deserted you. I am sorry I ignored all your messages. I am sorry I couldn't be there for you when you needed me most. I can make all the excuses in the world for why I haven't been able to step up to my end of the bargain but the truth of the matter is - I was too busy for you. I was too caught up in my own life to think about you enough. Even though I dreamt about you often, I verbally couldn't tell you that. I knew that a paragraph just wouldn't do this emotion justice. So I left it. I ignored it. I put off talking to you... For that I am truly truly sorry. Let me begin to explain.

For those who don't know me and what has been going on, I haven't had a life for the past couple months. With travelling for work and attempting to take some of the four weeks leave I was meant to take (I only used five days of those) during absolute peak season, I haven't had a chance to write the blog. The lingerie industry goes absolutely crazy during November-December. With new stock being released ready for those Christmas gift purchases, new store openings and stock previews for next season it was an exciting but extremely busy eight weeks for me. I loved every second of it but now I am physically exhausted!!


I have soooo much to catch you up on and I aim to get on to that as soon as I can. I have started dozens of posts and haven't had the time to finish any of them! All I can say is, it is a very exciting time for lingerie in Australia. I've watched it grow rather quickly these past few months. To you it may not seem much but to me it is the start of the lingerie boom here in Australia. More brands being introduced, more store openings and expansions and more lingerie making it into main stream media. Hallelujah! It's about time!


Thanks to Natalie Rowe Photography
Lingerie from Belle Chasse

I must keep it short as I really need to sleep! But I do hope you are all well and I will get back into blogging more regularly very very soon, I promise.

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I have missed you! Have you missed me?



Monday, December 10, 2012




The success of a lingerie boutique hinges on one of the most ancient and simplest art forms: Customer Service. It isn't a difficult thing to do. It requires a smile, a little bit of effort and lingerie knowledge. A store may have some amazing stock, but with no one to assist and encourage a purchase, who is going to buy the garments? Lingerie (especially fun stuff) usually doesn't sell itself. It takes prompting. Most women don't buy these frivolous garments just because. They are purchasing for a reason...

I went into a store in Sydney (it shall remain nameless) that I have been to previously. The service I endured during my last visit was far from satisfactory, but I really liked some of the labels they stocked, so I wanted to give them another chance and not judge an entire store on the efforts of one staff member. Who knows, she could've been having a really bad day. Maybe her cat had just passed away, or perhaps she found out her boyfriend cheated on her. Who knows the reason behind poor customer service from someone whose profession is to perform in this field.

I walked into the store excited to see what they had for me this time. I hear the assistant say to her friend on the phone "I've got to go. A customer just walked in." I thought 'great' - that was polite of her. This time I would get some service! I looked up from my phone having removed my headphones to offer her a smile, and an easy opportunity to say hello and ask what had brought me to her store today. Alas she was looking at her computer screen already. Following my entrance to the store and her getting off the phone, her focus had already shifted from her friend straight to something else without even a greeting. Ok, maybe she was doing paperwork or something. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and started browsing.

I was touching stock, looking for size tags and prices. Still not a peep. I went to the next rack, right against the counter. She didn't even look up when I looked her way. It was disappointing to say the least. I was the customer, yet I felt like I had to do all the work. I understand that some clients may be reluctant to talk in a cheeky lingerie store and prefer browsing in silence - I get that. There are few things more disconcerting than being followed around a store by an assistant watching your every move as if expecting a thief. That scenario will encourage me to leave a store regardless of the quality of the product. A simple greeting and an enquiry as to why I'm in their establishment is all I ask for. If I want to browse I will say, but I would like to be asked. It shouldn't be my job to approach her.

After about five minutes of wandering around this very small store, I got frustrated and thought this is getting ridiculous. I had to break the ice. "Whats up the stairs?" She finally looked up and smiled. Unfortunately, by that time I was over it and it was more of a test to see what she would verbally offer me. She had the chance to redeem herself with a touch of service. Alas, all I got was "Upstairs is toys and books...". "Um is there any more lingerie up there?". "No"...



What?? Ok, back to the racks I went. Straight to the original Maison Close three-piece I was eyeing off, with chain detail. I took piece by piece off the rack, examining them all. Held it up to my body in the mirror, and... nothing. Ok this store was done. Not a chance I was going to buy there. For the fun of it anyway, I asked if there were any more sizes available, mentioning that all I could see was size medium and large on the rack. She said she'd check out the back and disappeared, without even bothering to go to the rack first. She came back and exclaimed that they were sold out, but could find out if she could get it and call me later? I said I'm from Melbourne so it's now or never, telling her I really liked Maison Close and I couldn't get it back home so I loved seeing it her store... Still no offer of "Maybe you should try on the Medium and see" or "how about this one also by Maison Close. It uses a really beautiful Chantilly lace and has suspenders." I thought she was still paying attention to me and had gone back to the computer to look up if she could find the stock for me. But no. She was back online reading something absorbing. That's when I walked out. "Thank you!" not...

I'd had enough. I am without a doubt one of the easiest people in the world to sell lingerie to. A little encouragement and I'm sold! If I find what I want, I DO purchase odd sizes and alter things if I really love them, but I wasn't going to purchase from a store that wouldn't even have a basic conversation with a client when not busy. And it's not like this was the first time they had done this to me. I gave them two chances and they failed I'm sorry to say. This store has some lovely stock but very poor customer service. I will find these pieces online - and when I say online, I don't mean from their online store.

I didn't want to have to sell myself to them as a legitimate client, but that is how it felt. I probably would have got the service I required if I proved to her that I REALLY wanted to buy, but I wasn't dressed up, I looked young, I had just walked all the way there to visit their store, and in the end they lost me as a client, forever.



So retailers be warned: I am on the look out. I don't like to verbally put down lingerie stores on the blog and name the damned, because they are a dying breed. But you need to pull up your socks and make an effort with your customers. If you work it well, every one who enters could potentially create a sale. Even if they just refer the store to someone else. Boutique stores need word of mouth to keep them alive. If you can keep the clients talking positively, you will be making money in no time. 


Have you had a bad lingerie customer service experience? Or a good one for that matter!
 

Saturday, November 17, 2012



Shhh! Shut your mouth! Quiet! Shut up! Zip it! I know I don't need anymore black in my lingerie collection but I can't seem to be able to say no to an unusual style bra, even if it is in plain black. I'm always on the lookout for something just a little different. A lingerie set with that "je ne sais quoi"  If I look in bra drawer number one at home, I'd say three quarters of the bras in there are black. Perhaps it is a Melbourne thing? But really I think it truly depends on the colours you wear over the top of it everyday. I do wear a lot of black...

I just purchased my first Maison Close bra from Passion Fruit (more on this store later) I raided their racks and found a gorgeous black satin bra with zips going up the middle of the cup. You could wear it done up or open and turn it into a peek a boo bra. It was so unusual and cheeky I had to buy it! It wasn't my normal thing to do, when it wasn't on sale, but the price point for this Romanian label are actually perfectly affordable. $49 for the bra, but there weren't any matching bottoms left. Lucky for me I have a multitude of black bottoms that would match perfectly with this unique bra.


 
My Maison Close bra could be worn normally or remove the shoulder straps and convert it into a strapless. I loved the idea of a sexy adaptable bra. Practical yet completely raunchy! Check out the video link here to see the garments on www.youtube.com/MaisonClose

I wasn't sure how comfortable lingerie with a zip would be and I certainly didn't want to try zipping it up once I had it on....ouch! But the bra was actually not too bad! The zip sat nice and flat underneath the cup and was quite comfortable to wear.  It made me rack my brain to think of other lingerie brands that have used zips as a main feature piece. When done well, I think it makes a piece look quite modern and funky. Be it a zip strap or an item that actually unzips. Here are some of the labels I know to have done this really well.

Bordelle

Aubade
Lascivious

Aubade
La Perla
Find me here on Twitter for up to the minute purchases and sales as I find them. I Tweeted about this purchase as soon as I bought it. I can't hold my excitement when I find new lingerie.

Have you heard of Maison Close? Would you wear lingerie that unzipped?


Wednesday, November 7, 2012


Hi, my name is My Lingerie Addiction and welcome to my world. I have been receiving quite a few emails lately asking lingerie related questions as well as wondering who I am and what authority I have talking about this subject. I am so grateful that a little fun venture has turned into something that I can use to not only vent, but to also get my point across to people out there whom I will never meet. I never really introduced myself at the start, as the blog was just for my personal enjoyment and for my friends to read. It was a venting tool so I didn't have to talk lingerie over group dinners or birthday parties. I think my friends were well and truly over that conversation. So I started the blog in order to not only get it all out of my system but to document how much I actually own (I still don't know the exact number).

The conversations I have about lingerie can go to extremes and to be honest I don't have many people I can talk in depth about it with. Now thanks to the blog, there is you. There is a lot to learn about the world of lingerie. From media presented lingerie photography to feminine insecurities. From lingerie being thought of as purely a sex aid to how best store your bras. The argument of what men want compared to what women want. There are a million topics out there I want to touch on and learn more about myself. And six months ago I jotted down on paper some subjects I'd like to broach. I wanted to see if I would have enough to write about, and after twenty minutes I had over a hundred topics. This was a viable idea.


In one way, My Lingerie Addiction is for me to spout my opinion on labels, styles and service. In another it is a tool for those interested in reading how to see lingerie the way I do. Not just as a necessity, not just as a sexual accessory. Lingerie is all about you and if we as women don't talk about it how will we know what is available and how it should feel on? Media exposes us to fashion but lingerie is still taboo and hardly written about. Shapewear dominates Australian magazines over all other lingerie styles and I truly hate that. This will soon be all we know about lingerie.

Do you want to know if you are wearing the correct bra size? Or would you like to know more about the different shapes that are available and what body type they are best suited to? Is it ok to wear a push up bra on a daily basis? Where do you find a strapless bra for a G cup size? This is what I am here for. I may sound preachy and opinionated at times but I feel I can be. This is my anonymous world. Your opinion can differ from mine about style and that's completely fine. I just want to show you all the options you may not normally be exposed to via normal media. And let me tell you, I have been in this industry a long time and you wont meet anyone else in Australia as passionate about lingerie as I am. Certain things I write about are actual facts and some are merely my opinions. I am excited that you are reading and asking questions. I hope you pass it around so the conversation can continue (also feel free to skim and just look at pretty pictures).


So let me tell you a few base facts and reasons behind My Lingerie Addiction... the blog.

#1 Yes, I am a female! (Someone did actually question this)
#2 I am in my early 30s
#3 I have worked in the Australian lingerie industry for ten years in many different fields. As a professional fitter, designer, trainer, stylist, personal shopper and blogger. It is my passion, my career and my fun.
#4 My aim is to have Australian women open up to the world of good lingerie and not think of it as only a necessity, a body changing garment or a sexual item worn to please others. We aren't being exposed to decent lingerie here the way that Europe or the US are.
#5 I keep myself hidden for a reason, as obviously I am talking about a very personal and often thought of as sexual subject. So please no dodgy comments...(guys I'm talking to you)


 
Special thanks to Natalie Rowe photography

Lingerie: Prelude purchased at Honey Birdette
Model: Meg Goodes
Hair: Madeline Leon
Makeup: Candy

Feel free to ask questions and leave feedback on the blog itself and not just via email or FB. You can comment on here anonymously too! What have you learnt so far from reading the blog?


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